Offering Advice
In my earlier post, I had written about seeking advice and this post is about the other side - offering one. A couple of myths on offering and seeking advice -
In my earlier post, I had written about seeking advice and this post is about the other side - offering one. A couple of myths on offering and seeking advice -
There’s a lot of free (and bad) advice available in the open world and over time you have to get better at identifying the few good ones. Don’t get me wrong here,...
An effective strategy to deal with any problem is to find the root cause of the problem and try to fix it with simple and easy solutions. In the book Speaking up ...
For those of you who haven’t read the book or watched Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, a quick summary of one of my favorite scenes — Harry, Ron and Hermioi...
If I ever play one of the What is the first word that comes to your mind? games, I’d say attitude for Rafael Nadal and talent for Roger Federer. The reason is tha...
Last week, I had watched the latest Kung Fu Panda short film on Netflix and this blog post is my key learning from this short film. If you’ve haven’t watched the ...
The Inca trail is a popular trek in Peru, South America. The trail starts from KM 82 and ends in Machu Picchu. The trail is 26 miles long (42 km), has an elevatio...
The Milford Track, regarded by many as the finest walk in the world, is located amidst the temperate rain-forests in the Fiordland National Park in the South Isla...
My idea of celebrating birthdays have changed over the years. Previously, it meant being the center of attention - inviting lot of friends, cutting cake, answerin...
It’s been a while since I’ve blogged. While there are many excuses to convince myself, the simple truth is that I haven’t forced myself to stare at a computer scr...
The journey of learning a new skill is an interesting one. There’s a lot of similarity in all our journeys and understanding that is helpful in overcoming the cha...
Over the last few years, I’ve asked myself the question “Should I buy this stock/ETF/Index Fund?” many a times. It’s not easy making such decisions and you’d prob...
In the book Algorithms To Live By, Christian and Griffiths show how much we can learn from Computer Algorithms. The book goes over many algorithms like Optimal St...
We all have been in situations where we chose to lie and in some of those situations we might have even felt that it was the right thing to do. While I do agree t...
In 1953, two scientists at McGill University in Montreal were puzzled by the behavior of a rat in one of their lab experiments. In this experiment, they had place...
A couple of years ago, I had dislocated my toe. I was in a considerable amount of pain and hence I went to the doctor. The entire treatment was a three stage proc...
During the Holocaust in the 1940s, Viktor Frankl spent 3 years as a prisoner at the Nazi Concentration Camps. Viktor lost his wife, father, mother and brother in ...
If you look at the lives of everyone around you, you’ll notice that life is a sine wave. On the positive side - you might be successful in your job and get to spe...
Shoe Dog is a very candid memoir written by the founder and CEO of Nike - Phil Knight. If you’re listening to this in Audible, the narration by Norbert Leo Butz m...
In his book Originals : How Non-Conformists Move The World, Adam Grant talks about how everyone could be an original - how they can generate new ideas, how they c...
In his book Originals, Adam Grant talks about the 4 choices people have when handling a dissatisfying situation (think boring job, failing marriage or even as sim...
The book Founders At Work is a collection of interviews by Jessica Livingston with various startup founders. The book captures the founding and early moments from...
This is the first post in a series of blog posts on Shame based on the book The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown. If you haven’t listened to it already, I hi...
In the book Where Good Ideas Come From, Steven Johnson discusses the 7 common themes around innovation and creativity. Most of the examples in the book are center...
Imagine that you are skiing down a mountain trail at Aspen Snowmass Colorado — one of the expert diamond slopes, with the beautiful, awe-inspiring Rockies in your...
I started reading this book expecting a startup story - business decisions, growth strategies, hiring decisions, the business ideas that worked and more important...
There are 2 kinds of people based on the way they plan their events or tasks - the simplifiers and the optimizers. A simplifier is one who will prefer the easy wa...
This book was written after the financial meltdown in 2009 and as a result provides a realistic view on what to expect from investments. This book is highly recom...
This book is targeted towards people who are starting their careers in the United States. This book has a good breadth on financial topics but doesn’t go into dep...
In the book How to fail at almost everything and still win big, Scott Adams talks about why Systems are better than Goals. Consider the example of losing weight, ...
The book talks about 11 personality traits that could derail an executive/CEO’s career. They’re -
In 1983, William Smithburg, the CEO of Quaker, made a bold decision to acquire the parent company of Gatorade for $220 million. According to various reports, Will...
In life, we embrace a lot of changes — new place, new job, new technology, new boss, marriage, the birth of a kid. Yet, we resist certain other kind of changes li...
Food was one of my biggest hesitations for camping or backpacking. But after trying out some of the stuffs, I believe you could have good food while you go backpa...
My friend had come home and I was telling him that I need to get some work done over the weekend but I was feeling a tad lazy. He asked me to start by cleaning th...
Slack is a workplace collaboration tool for businesses. I’ve been using Slack at my current company for about a year now and it has definitely made me more produc...
In decision-making, we usually make a decision based on certain facts and assumptions and go about executing the decision on auto-pilot mode. Tripwire is a proces...
In the 1970s, Intel was one of the main manufacturers of the memory. However, by the end of the 1970s a couple of Japanese competitors had emerged and by the earl...
In 1983, William Smithburg, the CEO of Quaker, made a bold decision to acquire the parent company of Gatorade for $220 million. According to various reports, Will...
In his book Deep Work, Cal Newport talks about the concept of Attention Residue. When we switch from Task A to Task B, the attention usually doesn’t immediately f...
This is the second post in a series of blogposts on Design Patterns. You can read about The Strategy Pattern here.
This is the first post in a series of blogposts on Design Patterns. The strategy pattern is used when various implementations of a single behavior exists and we w...
If everything has to be perfect from the moment go, then you’re never going to get off the ground. Monika Hardy puts it this way - Notice, Dream, Connect, Do.
At dinner, a couple of us were having fun criticizing our friend for eating less. He had been eating the right amount, or he was dieting from our perspective, and...
A friend of mine shared this video uploaded by RSA on the difference between sympathy and empathy. This video is one of the best explanations of empathy I’ve seen...
A minor disappointment today got me thinking about the different ways in which either I’ve reacted or observed others react to tough moments - more specifically f...
Everytime you get a new job and join another company, there’s always this question of “What do I do with my 401(K)”? Having been through this process recently, th...
One of the things that Jony Ive had learnt from Steve Jobs was how to focus. Steve had asked Jony to list the things that he had said No to. Jony gave it some tho...
A little more than 6 weeks ago, I fractured my ankle. As I was living alone, this was harder than I initially thought and this blog post is about my learnings fro...
“Sometimes those with the most power have the least grace.”
Below are some of the Git commands that are not well known but I use them frequently and I find them to be useful -
Some of us like to be competitive - we like to push ourselves, to give our 100% and to fight even on the brink of failure. In fact, I think competition has always...
I was spending time with my 2 year-old niece and after her afternoon nap, she got up and gave me a good smile. I looked at her and I immediately knew this is what...
A couple of months ago, I started my new job. After I felt I had a good understanding of the system’s current architecture, I had a few ideas for improvements. I ...
One question that I always ask in a lunch interview is “What are you looking for in your next role?”. While most candidates strictly talk about factors that could...
A few years ago, a colleague of mine recommended me to watch this video on Negotiating your Job Offer by Deepak Malhotra at Harvard Business School. Even though I...
A couple of weeks ago, a friend and I were discussing about how people learn a new skill or technique. Learning is one way to make sure you continuously grow and ...
This summer, a close friend and I started playing tennis every week. Both of us are really competitive (a few shouts of frustration during the match) and analytic...
Mike Krzyzewski is the head coach of the Men’s Basketball team at Duke University since the 1980s. This blog post is about how his words became an unofficial mant...
Any Java developer who has worked on production systems or applications would realize the importance of logging. And in Java, there are various logging tools - ja...
The Game of Thrones Season 6 finale just ended. The background score in Game of Thrones doesn’t get talked about as much as it should. However, the recent episode...
I was on a hike with my friends and one of them was passionate about brewing coffee and like all passionate people, he was enthusiastically talking about it for a...
This is the second blog post on lessons from Poker - you can find the first post here.
A few years ago, a couple of friends and I had taken Poker lessons. The Poker instructor was very passionate about Poker and he drew many parallels between Poker ...
Imagine having a DSLR camera to click a wide landscape photo. While you zoom in to identify objects and understand them, you zoom out (or look away from the camer...
There are many ways in which people around you can influence you. On the positive side, there are mentors (people who guide you to be the best version of what you...
We all lose things and we all have different ways of dealing with it. This blog post is how I deal with it (a little exaggerated for fun) -
A couple of months ago, a friend of mine recommended me the Coursera course on Learning How To Learn. The course was very light (an hour a week for the material a...
Last winter season, a couple of friends and I decided to ski in Tahoe, a 3.5 hour drive from my place. The season pass was a little expensive and we didn’t want t...
I’ve been using the HBO app on my iPhone a lot recently and this blogpost is about my thoughts on what could be done to improve the user experience.
About a year ago, Jeff Weiner wrote a blog post about building great products and he called out Waze as an app that is simple, intuitive and easy to use. I wanted...
A little over 7 months ago, a friend of mine recommended me this meditation app. I had given it a try once before but kept falling asleep. I decided to try this o...
Recently, one of my colleagues told me about this app called Secret on the AppStore. I immediately liked the idea of an “anonymous social network” — although I fe...
This blog post is a cynical take on various stages of a large project. The list was first published in the 1970s with respect to Computer Science projects but has...
It always takes longer than you expect, even when you take into account Hofstadter’s Law.
Quitting is most often talked about as a negative thing. You’d often hear people say - ‘Quitters never win’ or ‘Don’t give up so easily’ or ‘Be a yes-man and say ...
It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
We associate love with a lot of things - with activities (I love to ski), with objects (I love my new shoes) and also with people (friends and family). Our use of...
A common strategy in business dealings, negotiations and even in relationships is play hard to get. It is not hard to see why - by playing hard to get, you increa...
Friendship means a lot to me. As I was growing up, I spent a lot of my time with my friends and they have played a huge role in getting me to where I’m today. It ...
In the book The Power of Vulnerability, Brene Brown talks about cultivating intuition and why this is important for happiness and whole-hearted living. Here’s how...
I was driving and having a conversation with a friend of mine and after a few seconds, I zoned out. I was preoccupied with another issue and my mind got distracte...
Trust is often the core of any relationship, personal or professional, and the only way to establish trust is to be consistent between what you say and what you d...
Three years ago, I went on a 7 day trip with my school friends. It was a long trip and on the last day as we were driving to the airport, my friend asked us a sim...
I was in Chicago last year and I was looking for ways to spend the day just by myself. So, I called my friend and asked for recommendations (the old-fashioned way...
We all have to make tough decisions in our life - whether it is as complicated as deciding what to do when we’ve lost your job or as simple as whether to buy this...
A friend of mine shared this video uploaded by RSA on the difference between sympathy and empathy. This video is one of the best explanations of empathy I’ve seen...
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people promptly announces she never did care for pie — Tenneva Jordan.
One of the disadvantages of being a professional sports player is that you constantly have to face failures publicly. And to make it worse, you’d have to explain,...
For those of you who haven’t read the book or watched Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, a quick summary of one of my favorite scenes — Harry, Ron and Hermioi...
Six months ago, I started training for the San Francisco Half Marathon (thank you LinkedIn for the sponsorship). Just to give you a quick information about my run...
I’ve been developing in Scala for close to a year now and it has been a jolly ride so far. One of the topics that I found tough to understand was implicits. This ...
The excuse I use most often to convince myself for not doing an activity is “I am not good at it”. However, this has become a default excuse for a lot of things -...
A common advice to college students or someone starting their career is to follow their passion. While I’ve always believed in this, this blog post is an effort t...
In my first job, I joined an experienced team that had been working on the product for about 3-4 years. The product was already mature and they already had a larg...
Before the social media (about 15 years ago), I saw peer pressure as a good thing. The only source of peer pressure came from my friends - who were mostly like me...
If your friend fails, you feel bad. But if your friend succeeds (and you haven’t), you feel worse.
The 4 words we dread hearing and yet we have the habit of using this phrase every now and then, usually with a smug look on our face. Here are 3 reasons why we mu...
Technology has helped us in a lot of ways. It has helped us find the right information with a click of a button, connect and stay in touch with friends across the...
There’s a scene in Game of Thrones Season 1 Episode 4 between Ned and Arya Stark -
Last week, MixPanel published an e-book on How To Grow As A Product Leader. The book is a collection of interviews with Max Levchin, Rand Fishkin, Danielle Morril...
Earlier this year, I found out that I’ve a meniscus tear in my right knee. This blog post is an information dump - from talking to friends and reading articles/fo...
After a long time, I got to watch an entire Tennis match. I guess I’m still trying to cope up with the absence of Roger Federer in the tour. Stan Wawrinka played ...
A few months ago, I was playing in a badminton tournament and someone in the top-ranked group didn’t make it that day and hence I, an amateur, was asked to take h...
A few months ago, I was playing in a badminton tournament and someone in the top-ranked group didn’t make it that day and hence I, an amateur, was asked to take h...
I was learning the techniques of a drop shot in Badminton and the coach had spotted a flaw in the way I hit this shot - I bend my arm while playing the shot and h...
I’ve been wanting to improve my Badminton skills for a while now and I finally decided to take private lessons. I was really excited about this and had prepared a...
There are many reasons that are attributed to Federer’s success - his talent, the ability to stay calm on the court and also his fitness. However, one reason that...
Sometimes in life, we don’t end up getting what we deserve (or what we think we deserve). We try to blame it on external factors - the conditions, the opportuniti...
Today (July 03 2015) is an important day in the history of Tennis - it marks the end of Nadal’s domination at Roland Garros. Don’t get me wrong here - I’m not say...
One of the disadvantages of being a professional sports player is that you constantly have to face failures publicly. And to make it worse, you’d have to explain,...
Tony Hsieh is the CEO of Zappos Inc. - the online shoe and clothing company that was bought by Amazon in 2009. This blog post is about my learnings from him on In...
Brian Chesky and Joe Gebbia were part of the YCombinator program in 2009 with a crazy idea of renting out the apartment to strangers. They hadn’t done well until ...
Rubrik, one of the fastest growing SaaS companies, have defined a set of cultural values for their employees to live by and they call it RIVET.
Imagine a future where there is a right amount of consumption for the technical products we use. Just like a doctor would prescribe you to take Paracetamol twice ...
A few months ago, my friend migrated his blog to github pages. At that time, I had just started to blog on medium and I didn’t know if I had the discipline to con...
Andy Murray might have played his last match against Roberto Bautista Agut at the Australian Open. He lost the match in 5 sets. I’ll remember him charging towards...
On May 15 1987, a boy named Andy Barron Murray was born in Glasgow, Scotland. Having born 6 years after Federer and a year after Nadal, great things were expected...
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people promptly announces she never did care for pie — Tenneva Jordan.
One question that I always ask in a lunch interview is “What are you looking for in your next role?”. While most candidates strictly talk about factors that could...
My wife and I celebrated our first anniversary trip in French Polynesia (a group of islands south of Hawaii with Bora Bora being the most popular amongst them) af...
Havasupai means people of the blue-green water and the name doesn’t disappoint. When you add the red color backdrop of the Grand Canyon, this is a paradise for ph...
When I was really young, my parents used to wake me up early in the morning (around 4 am) and take me to the Hindu Temple in Tirupathi. We used to drive for a few...
One of the things that I don’t like about vacations is arranging my travel plans to and from the airport. My options are -
When a friend comes and asks you for information, how you’d respond most of the time determines your reciprocity style -
In Open: An Autobiography, Andre Agassi shared a secret with us after winning his first Grand Slam at Wimbledon in 1992.
In the book Start With Why, Simon Sinek explains how companies, teams and partnerships innovate and grow using the Golden Circle.
Over the weekend I was discussing gift ideas with a friend of mine. This conversation reminded me about the numerous occasions in the past when I had the intentio...
Today, I got back to work after a long weekend and the first few minutes were difficult to immediately get the concentration going. But then, I put on my headphon...
You read the name right (or if you read it as Roger Federer, you might want to read the title again). The blog post is about Roger Federer’s dad, Robert.
I was having dinner with a couple of friends and after I thanked them for cooking and inviting me for the lovely meal, they asked me why I was being so formal. Th...